If you could change two things in your life right now, what would they be?

For most men, the top two items on their list would be finding a more satisfying job and getting a more active sex life. And I’m about to show you how to do both at once.

Very few of us leave school knowing what we want to do with our lives. We fall into the first jobs we’re offered, then forget to keep considering the alternatives. But why stick with something which isn’t rewarding? If your current greatest goal in life is to get a bit more female attention, why not make your work start working for you, and switch to a job with pulling power?

It’d be easy for men to think that the better looking they are, the easier it is for them to succeed in getting woman. Haven’t you often noticed that ugly men always end up having the most charming looking chicks? It’s the same in high school, in university, as well as in work situation. Think big and tall men always have an upper hand? Think again. The long-legged creatures that you fancy might just end up being with her short, fat and bald husband and stay happy ever after. Funny how things work, eh? I tell you…when it comes to how to get woman, just the outside look don’t carry much weight at all.

It can be difficult for man to play the right cards in the dating arena. A lot of things can go wrong for you more so than for your female counterpart. Plus, girls can be really dense about a few things. Well, no worries. Here are top 5 things to do during a date:

1) Look good, be neat.

Put extra effort to the way you look. Take the time be well groomed, smell nice and choose your clothes well. It must correspond to the place with which your date is set. Make a good impression, so you can charm her and she can be proud of you.

I’ll say things to her that MAKE SENSE to me. I’ll say things to her that I will make her think, ‘This guy is awesome, I want his babies. He buys me a lot of stuff and he really seems to CARE about me. He’s got SO MUCH going for him. He has a good job, a career path and I know he can support me… and the kids.’

If any of those above thoughts have run through your minds recently, you’re not in the right frame of mind. Remember what women are attracted to/value: she wants EMOTIONS. All the lines you say, all the body language you do (to a lesser extent, I believe body language is a huge part of this) will not work if you’re not aiming to affect the right things. All of those wont work if you’re not focusing on the right things.

Do you ever look at someone and he or she seems to be a people magnet? People, both men and women, seem to gravitate to him or her. He or she does not seem to do anything special, yet people flock to his or her side, hanging on to their every word. You feel like a wallflower as you quietly blend into the woodwork wondering, “What does he or she have that I don’t?” That answer is simple, he or she has been developing their charisma.
Charisma is a combination of many factors…